Sirens.
Rioting. Missiles… and more missiles. Attempted terror attacks. And I am busy
getting ready for Shabbos. That's my battle right now. To do my avodas
Hashem. To be me, a wife, mother, and grandmother, while all around me,
chaos reigns. It's not easy. I force myself not to check the news every five
minutes. Every time I hear the "Tzav Adom" alert, informing me
that a missile has been fired, I want to stop whatever I'm doing to recite Tehillim.
But
life has to go on. And Shabbos comes, ready or not.
The
truth is, it's absolutely insane. There's a war going on, yet here, in
Yerushalayim, it is peaceful and calm. Normal, which, when you think about it,
is really not normal.
Last
week I took a (hyper)active child to a studio across town to record a narration
for a video that I am producing. We got through the torturous hour with promises
of pizza and ice cream, and even added sprinkles for good behavior.
Later
on, while attempting to find an empty seat in the pizza parlor, the boy's
mother and I looked at each other in bewilderment. The place was packed, and
everyone seemed to be having a wonderful time. Were we the only people aware that
just a few miles away, our soldiers were endangering their lives to assure our
safety, and that over forty of them (oh, please, Hashem, may there be no more)
will never return?
The
boy's mother smiled at me and said, "The truth is, this is what we need to
do. Continue to live normally. That's what they're fighting for."
Every
once in a while (at least ten times a day!) someone calls to tell me about
another miracle. The three kedoshim were the catalyst to a war that was
not supposed to be, at least not now. No one even dreamed of the dozens of
tunnels that ran literally under people's homes (when southern residents told
the IDF that they were hearing digging under their beds, they were referred to
a psychologist!), and of the murderous massacre that, hodu laShem ki tov,
was averted. Today, a car full of
explosives was caught at the very last moment, at the entrance to Beitar.
Several days ago, the Iron Dome was unsuccessful in intercepting a missile
headed directly to the center of Tel Aviv. With less than four seconds to go
before it would slam into a large building, the officer in charge of the Iron
Dome made a promise that he would start to keep Shabbos… and a strong wind blew
the missile into the sea (yup, this one gave me the chills too!)
Sunday, I'm giving a
talk to mothers about what they can do to protect their children from dangerous
people, many of them who appear to be frum, ehrliche Yidden. As I
prepared my shiur, I kept on thinking about the tunnels. No one knew
they were there. To the people living in the idyllic, rustic communities, the threat
seemed to come from the missiles shot at them from across the border. They never
dreamed that the real danger was hidden beneath their own backyards,
undermining the foundations of their insular life. Knowledge of this threat's
existence is the first step to winning the war, in Gaza, within our community,
and within ourselves.
At
times, I have this urge to travel south and join the thousands of Israelis who
are handing out everything from Havdalah sets and tzitzis to
deodorant and hotdogs to the soldiers taking a short break from the grueling
battle. And yes, when I do pass a soldier on his way to the front, I wish him
much hatzlachah and give him my blessings that he return home safely,
and get a huge smile and thank you in return. But my tafkid is not to fight at
the front. It's to be home, with my family, living in a bubble of normalcy,
while battling the tunnels within. It's to recite Tehillim while
polishing the candlesticks and washing the dishes and making the beds, and
knowing that with my mundane actions I am creating a true Jewish home. A
bastion of kedushah.
And
that really is something worth fighting for.
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